Monday, December 04, 2006

Sexual Oddities - Part II

As promised here are a few more "oddities" of a sexual nature...

1) When I come during penetration I love to be in a passionate kiss with my partner. For some reason my mouth, lips and tongue enjoying theirs adds to my orgasmic pleasure. Either that or to be inches from my partners eyes. It's all about the connection for me as sex is a spiritual experience for me.

2) I enjoy the moments when I am stimulating a new partner with my hands and move to her anus and play gently there for a while and see if she wants more. I love the non verbal agreement that allows me to penetrate her there and increase her pleasure, and mine too.

3) I have never had a one night stand. It has never really appealed to me either. I have had one off sexual experiences but that is different. I wonder of I will ever have one.

4) I am fairly quiet during sex. I can not for the life of me talk dirty. It just seems so false whenever I have attempted it. When I hear myself say something dirty during sex I make myself cringe so I avoid it like the plague. Perhaps a new partner will one day teach me how to do this without wanting to curl up and die.

5) When I was younger I got into a habit of masturbating while straddling a toilet frontways on. It seems strange now but it seemed to work at the time and you could always pretend you were taking a dump to anyone wanting to use the loo after you.

6) I have never tasted my own semen. I have no desire to. No-one has ever told me what they think it tastes like either.


The more I write, the more I seem to be able to come up with fairly easily. Please comment on these so I don't feel like a total weirdo.

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Sunday, December 03, 2006

Sexual Oddities - Part I

In a previous post I mentioned I had been tagged by Tara to come up with and blog six sexual oddities for all and sundry to enjoy reading about.

I have titled this entry "Part I" as I realised I have many oddities and to leave it at just six would be a gross injustice. Therefore I will start with six in this blog entry and add more later.

Let's not waste any time then...

1) I am not sure if this is classed as an oddity or just an observation but when I masturbate I am rarely at full size. No matter how far my imagination takes me I can never be really turned on. As a bloke I require a fair amount of visual stimulus to get that cock at full strength. If I have porn handy and it is particularly to my taste then I find my rod is at maximum stiffness and the purple head is glistening in the light and whatsmore I have a fantastic orgasm.

2) I am more eager to please my sexual partner than I am to be pleased. Is this odd? I don't mean this in a "I'm a stud" type of way rather I get so much pleasure from providing sexual/sensual pleasure that I just have to ensure my partner gets it. I can spend a long time pleasuring my partner and receive nothing in return and that does not bother me one bit.

3) Once in a blue moon I have a flashing thought in my head as to what it would be like to suck cock. This is rare and I think it is one of those tick it off your list type of things but I'd thought I would mention it all the same.

4) I seem to attract women who don't like to swallow. In fact I don't think anyone I have dated really gets off on fellatio. Also, it is not as good as penetration so I am not too bothered but to have someone go down on you is more of a taboo and intimate action that I get a psychological pleasure out of it more than I do a physical one. Perhaps I have not met anyone who gives really good head!

5) To hear a woman moan with pleasure is one of the greatest feelings in the world. It can also be the instigator for me coming sooner than I would like. Perhaps I should wear headphones.

6) I have an area on my side, well both sides actually, that if ever so gently stroked is orgasmic. It has to be a fingernail tip to be really effective. One girl at Uni (from Wisconsin) managed to get me writhing about by just having her nail tip on one spot and just moving it a fraction. It takes a while to build up and if not done right it will pass and just become irritating but when it is done right it is the best feeling I have ever experienced. My last girlfriend could not achieve it for me...so we broke up. No, not for that reason. If I ever find someone who can do this again for me I will marry them. I must take a trip to Wisconsin.

Ok folks. Those are a few to whet your appetite. I hope they were sufficient for this tagging. I will add more as they come to mind.

I look forward to reading some of your own so please drop me a link to your own entries.

Tagged

I have been tagged! It's official, no getting away from it. Tara has decided to re-open the door to Vaspers dormant erotic blog by suggesting I join in on the blog version of a chain letter and reveal six sexual oddities about myself.

I would normally respond by saying that I don't consider what anyone does, wants or fantasizes about when it comes to sex is in any way strange, unusual, quirky or deviant. In fact, I would go so far as to say that a persons sexual preferences laid bare are a beautiful insight into that persons psyche.

For now you will have to sit back and wait as I ponder this tagging and manage to expose myself to those who wish to know more about my sexual proclivities. Perhaps proclivities is the wrong word as I hope what I come up with is not in any way objectionable.

See you back here soon.