Captivating

Being a bit of a voyeur when it comes to all things sexual I must say that I also find beauty and wonder in the incredible photographs that adorn the web these days. I absolutely love black and white photographs and I was recently sent a link to a site containing some truly astounding pictures which I wanted to share with you.

Pookalookaville is a blog written by a very talented woman indeed. Take a peek!

Sexual Oddities - Part II

As promised here are a few more "oddities" of a sexual nature...

1) When I come during penetration I love to be in a passionate kiss with my partner. For some reason my mouth, lips and tongue enjoying theirs adds to my orgasmic pleasure. Either that or to be inches from my partners eyes. It's all about the connection for me as sex is a spiritual experience for me.

2) I enjoy the moments when I am stimulating a new partner with my hands and move to her anus and play gently there for a while and see if she wants more. I love the non verbal agreement that allows me to penetrate her there and increase her pleasure, and mine too.

3) I have never had a one night stand. It has never really appealed to me either. I have had one off sexual experiences but that is different. I wonder of I will ever have one.

4) I am fairly quiet during sex. I can not for the life of me talk dirty. It just seems so false whenever I have attempted it. When I hear myself say something dirty during sex I make myself cringe so I avoid it like the plague. Perhaps a new partner will one day teach me how to do this without wanting to curl up and die.

5) When I was younger I got into a habit of masturbating while straddling a toilet frontways on. It seems strange now but it seemed to work at the time and you could always pretend you were taking a dump to anyone wanting to use the loo after you.

6) I have never tasted my own semen. I have no desire to. No-one has ever told me what they think it tastes like either.


The more I write, the more I seem to be able to come up with fairly easily. Please comment on these so I don't feel like a total weirdo.

:0)

Sexual Oddities - Part I

In a previous post I mentioned I had been tagged by Tara to come up with and blog six sexual oddities for all and sundry to enjoy reading about.

I have titled this entry "Part I" as I realised I have many oddities and to leave it at just six would be a gross injustice. Therefore I will start with six in this blog entry and add more later.

Let's not waste any time then...

1) I am not sure if this is classed as an oddity or just an observation but when I masturbate I am rarely at full size. No matter how far my imagination takes me I can never be really turned on. As a bloke I require a fair amount of visual stimulus to get that cock at full strength. If I have porn handy and it is particularly to my taste then I find my rod is at maximum stiffness and the purple head is glistening in the light and whatsmore I have a fantastic orgasm.

2) I am more eager to please my sexual partner than I am to be pleased. Is this odd? I don't mean this in a "I'm a stud" type of way rather I get so much pleasure from providing sexual/sensual pleasure that I just have to ensure my partner gets it. I can spend a long time pleasuring my partner and receive nothing in return and that does not bother me one bit.

3) Once in a blue moon I have a flashing thought in my head as to what it would be like to suck cock. This is rare and I think it is one of those tick it off your list type of things but I'd thought I would mention it all the same.

4) I seem to attract women who don't like to swallow. In fact I don't think anyone I have dated really gets off on fellatio. Also, it is not as good as penetration so I am not too bothered but to have someone go down on you is more of a taboo and intimate action that I get a psychological pleasure out of it more than I do a physical one. Perhaps I have not met anyone who gives really good head!

5) To hear a woman moan with pleasure is one of the greatest feelings in the world. It can also be the instigator for me coming sooner than I would like. Perhaps I should wear headphones.

6) I have an area on my side, well both sides actually, that if ever so gently stroked is orgasmic. It has to be a fingernail tip to be really effective. One girl at Uni (from Wisconsin) managed to get me writhing about by just having her nail tip on one spot and just moving it a fraction. It takes a while to build up and if not done right it will pass and just become irritating but when it is done right it is the best feeling I have ever experienced. My last girlfriend could not achieve it for me...so we broke up. No, not for that reason. If I ever find someone who can do this again for me I will marry them. I must take a trip to Wisconsin.

Ok folks. Those are a few to whet your appetite. I hope they were sufficient for this tagging. I will add more as they come to mind.

I look forward to reading some of your own so please drop me a link to your own entries.

Tagged

I have been tagged! It's official, no getting away from it. Tara has decided to re-open the door to Vaspers dormant erotic blog by suggesting I join in on the blog version of a chain letter and reveal six sexual oddities about myself.

I would normally respond by saying that I don't consider what anyone does, wants or fantasizes about when it comes to sex is in any way strange, unusual, quirky or deviant. In fact, I would go so far as to say that a persons sexual preferences laid bare are a beautiful insight into that persons psyche.

For now you will have to sit back and wait as I ponder this tagging and manage to expose myself to those who wish to know more about my sexual proclivities. Perhaps proclivities is the wrong word as I hope what I come up with is not in any way objectionable.

See you back here soon.

Nipples

Shall I compare thee to a summers day, or shall I just suck on your nipples for a bit?!

I am fascinated by nipples, mainly womens nipples but nipples in general nonetheless. Amazing aren't they? I love 'em. It's not the size of a womans breast that gets me, its the size, shape and sucktitude (I just made that up but I like it) of her nipples. I like big and small breasts. They are both appealing. Yet nipples....

I like em small. I hate huge nipples. It puts me off big time. Give me a nice tiny nipple on a small or large breast and I am one happy camper.

I have had my nipples bitten hard, licked, sucked and tweaked from here to eternity and it doesn't do much for me I must say but I love a woman who can shiver and go weak at the faintest touch across her nipple. Now THAT gives me the horn...

FUCK

I can't imagine fucking without putting my whole being into it. Casual sex has never been on my agenda. Sure, casual by nature, a fleeting meeting on bodies with no strings attached but not so casual as to deny the importance of the occassion. For it is an occassion, a big one. Two (or more) people sharing THE most intimate human act possible. How can it be taken casually? Every single time I have sex, fuck, screw, shag, make love, I feel honored. It may seem a strange word to use but I do feel that. It may be a casual encounter but it still contains an element of seriousness.

There are those that have one night stands and are ok with that. I imagine there is a small part of them that feels a little cheated though. Cheated to not have that extra undeniable connection that is present every single time two people get together to fuck.

Suffice to say, I take my fucking seriously, but not myself. I often imagine the sight of myself fucking and I have had the opportunity to do so thanks to a hotel video moment with an old flame (the tape has gone missing and neither myself or my ex have been able to locate it so I expect to see it pop up on the internet sooner or later). What a comical sight it was. It's a good job I have a big penis or it would have been even funnier!

Friends

“We’re friends right?” Linda just stared at me from her seat on the couch as I closed the door behind me.

I walked slowly across the room. Her eyes never left mine the whole time.

“I guess” she whispered, fingering her blouse. She pulled awkwardly at her short skirt.

I touched her softly on the cheek. She seemed sad. The look on her face said it all. “Are you glad I came?” I already knew her answer.

Her lip quivered, making her seem even more vulnerable.

She sat up, glared at me with a pained expression and blurted, “Eat me, you piece of shit.”

Then she slapped my face so hard, the sting shot up and down my body as my head swung round.

I opened my eyes and pulled my head up, my mouth open. I wiped my chin with the back of my hand.

She lay on the couch, her head tipped back, breasts tight against the white cotton top she was wearing, legs wide apart.

“You bitch!” I snorted.

I was on her immediately, slid her panties to one side and took her moistness fully in my mouth. Easing my hand down, I unbuttoned my fly, released my cock and worked myself while licking feverishly at her clit. Her pleasurable moans got me going, and I came quickly, feeling anger rise up inside me.

“You bitch!” I snorted.

She lay on the couch, her head tipped back, her breasts tight against the white cotton top she was wearing, legs wide apart.

I opened my eyes and pulled my head up, my mouth open. I wiped my chin with the back of my hand.

Then she slapped my face so hard, the sting shot up and down my body as my head swung round.

She sat up, glared at me with a pained expression and blurted, “Eat me, you piece of shit.”

Her lip quivered, making her seem even more vulnerable.

I touched her softly on the cheek. She seemed sad. The look on her face said it all. “Are you glad I came?” I already knew her answer.

“I guess” she whispered, fingering her blouse. She pulled awkwardly at her short skirt.

I walked slowly across the room. Her eyes never left mine the whole time.

“We’re friends right?” Linda just stared at me from her seat on the couch as I closed the door behind me.

Pavlovs Dog

Remember PAvlov? He was the guy who could get dogs to salivate just by ringing a bell. Well today I was made to feel a bit like Mr Pavlov by my fellow erotic writer Tara Tainton.

The thought of a sexy wench getting fired up at the sound of my voice is a huge turn on and gives me a sense of power that makes you want to ravish someone on the spot.

Big Dick

What constitutes a big dick these days? I remember a while ago being in a pub where a drunk girl gesticulated that she had only been getting guys recently who ere "this big" (imagine thumb and forefinger in close proximity).

Now, even as a guy who is ok with the size of his penis, there is a small amount of intimidation when girls mention that they are not getting big enough dicks. What is big enough. Does anyone get the ruler out before sex? I imagine that as long as you are over 6 inches you are good to go but then again, maybe not.

A lot of ladies like the idea of a big dick but not the reality. A good friend of mine told me an encounter with a german guy made her scared of big dicks....his was just too big for her! As women are all different inside just as guys are on the outside the whole "size" debate just seems to be a waste of time (well I would say that wouldn't I ;0)...).

I have had encounters where my dick seems just the right size for my partner and other times where it is not....that's just the way it is....

Personally I don't like big pussies, but hey...that's just me......